I used to parent (which, by the way, it’s so weird to use ‘parent’ as a verb) based on this premise… As parents, we made a choice to bring a child into the world. It wasn’t Rory’s (our daughter's) choice. So now it’s up to us to make this life as good of an experience as we can for her.
Jonas, my view - (and that of many others) - is that 'personality Rory' did not choose to come into this life, but her soul did... and chose you as her parents, as did you choose to have this soul as your child. It was all in the plan for the needed learning experiences of all three of you. And how wise you are to realize that you are not God in her life... but still very important in it!
Jonas, my view - (and that of many others) - is that 'personality Rory' did not choose to come into this life, but her soul did... and chose you as her parents, as did you choose to have this soul as your child. It was all in the plan for the needed learning experiences of all three of you. And how wise you are to realize that you are not God in her life... but still very important in it!